Gathered Thoughts....

No one’s saying settle for less, but less isnt always a bad thing…too much of anything is damage.

Now i know everyone may not agree with my opinion, and hey that’s fine, but i feel like as a woman i need to address this common issue with expensive dating. Honestly, i’m just going to go by what i feel is right when it comes to going on dates and what is pointless and what actually will get you a second date plus more.

First dates, too many women feel like if he doesn’t take me to this five star restaurant, give me flowers, etc. If this was maybe about a few more dates afterwards then yes it would be nice to have that but it’s not really that necessary, now if he wants to then go for it but you shouldnt expect it. To me, if a man is willing to pick you up and hardly knows you first of all, takes you out to dinner, amongst whatever else he feels like doing, be appreciative. I’m the type that believes simplicity means so much, even if he was to just take you to Red Robin (a gourmet burger place in case you dont know), that would mean a lot because i want to be able to spend time with the person. Five star restaurants are nice and all but not everyone is at that level of finances and what is the point of spending so much money on food? 

I was raised to where i was always use to nice things, nice places to eat, etc, but as i’ve grown up to become a mature woman, i realize nice things are nice if you can afford it but even then, it’s not that necessary all the time . 

If you can show a woman how much you want to get to know her, do simple things, to most of us, that’s all we ever want is the time to spend with a person we care about and who cares about us. Even if it’s just going bowling or staying at home, or even simply cooking a meal with each other or for each other, either way, it’s about spending time.

This is only part one, but trust me, there will be a part two…until then, feel free to share your thoughts.

I Want A Relationship Where We Can Playfight ,Act Stupid Together , Make Love , Go Out On Dates , Sit At Home , Cuddle & Play Video Games

I am glad that i am a woman who knows her worth and who is worth having me. God knows what’s best and i would never want to settle for less. <3

Don’t get stuck on the one thing that ruins your day. Smile and be happy. Life is too short to waste on negativity

We ladies hate pickup lines. Hate them. And we can see them a mile
away. Your best bet is just to be yourself and see where things go. Of
course, it neve hurts to be te witty & charming version of yourself.
Show her that you dont take yourself too seriously, but don’t put
yourself down, either.

1) ”That looks cute.”
For the most part, men hate cute. We don’t want to hear about it, we don’t want to see it, and we sure as hell don’t want to be it. If we come down stairs after getting dressed and you tell us we look cute, there’s a 100 percent chance we’re changing. We’re supposed to be your protector, your rock, and cute does not fit into that picture.

2) ”We need to talk.” 
These four words shut off a man’s brain faster than long division. When men hear you say that they immediately go into flight mode. And anything they can do to get out of this conversation—and better yet, your apartment—they will. There are plenty of other ways to approach a delicate conversation, and getting us in a place where we feel comfortable is a good start.

3) ”It’s just a game.” 
Actually, it’s not just a game. Sports are a major part of our lives and the outcome has as much to do with our mood as just about anything else. Is it fair? No. Is it right? No. Is it immature? Maybe. But it’s life. Sometimes we just care too much. We understand that it doesn’t make sense, but you should be happy that we’re that passionate about something. Telling us that “it’s just a game” is like us telling you that Oprah’s just a talk show host.

4) ”Nothing’s wrong.” 
Please don’t tell us nothing’s wrong. The look on your face could make the toughest guy on the planet weep like a third-grade girl and your arms are crossed so tight you might explode. We’re not mind readers; tell us what’s going on. And don’t make us guess because—believe me—you won’t like what we come up with.

5) ”I sound like my mom.” 
The mere fact that you might turn into your mom someday scares the hell out of us. Don’t say it, even in jest—it’s not funny. We actually believe (and pray) that the saying “every woman ends up looking like their mother” is an old wives’ tale. If we didn’t, no one would ever get married.

Sometimes our instincts tell us what we want to hear, not what we’re actually perceiving.

Actions prove who someone is. Words just prove who they wanna be .

If you don’t call me all day I’ll understand. When you don’t text me all day I’ll understand. When I stop liking you I hope you understand.

The problem with Fellas is, they pretend to like u when they dont. The problem with Ladies is, they pretend they dont like you when they do

Never get too attached to anyone because attachments leads to expectations & expectations leads to disappointments.

A real woman brings the best out of her man, makes him a better person, sees his potential &when times are rough, doesnt give up on him ♡